Its all worth it.

Many of us dream of the day when we can find someone who we want to share the rest of our lives with and have the feeling reciprocated. But what we dont bargain for is the effort, time, blood, sweat and tears that we have to invest in that person and relationship to make it great. Often we get caught up in things that look rather grave and important, which may seem highly detrimental to the success of the relationship. And when you check it out they may not be as great but more mediocre than you led your mind to believe;  sometimes our minds gives us this terrible illusion that there MUST be struggle in our relationships and that is not necessarily true. You dont need to fight everyday to keep you on your toes in the relationship or to add spice and variety to it, if thats what other couples do and its been working for years for them, well good for them. The problem comes in when you try to imitate that, you fail to realize that no two persons are the same, your friends relationship will not be like yours because you aren't dating your friends significant other.
As they say its the little things, which in my opinion are the big things that count. You can't see your s/o because they have strict parents, well that means the little time that you guys to share together should mean the most to you, no situation lasts forever; so if and when you decide that you can longer wait on your partner because his/ her parents will never change, please remember that you wont live with your parents forever and if you dont give up the reward for waiting and keep building with that person, trust me the reward will be much greater than one or two stolen kisses. Our struggles,  obstacles, obstructions,  hindrances, whatever you want to call it, only makes us stronger in whatever aspects of our life. They mold us into this whole, fulfilled individual we never knew we could become and someone understands the reason behind that struggle and how you've matured as a person or your attitude may be a little nasty (nobody's perfect) because of those struggles and decides to love you wholeheartedly nonetheless, then you'll realize that you're much more appreciated because of what you've endured.
P.S The quicker it comes, the faster it goes. Easy doesn't always mean longevity.

Shout out to my inspiration today: S.A.D , make the right choice hun, I've been waiting. ❤ ❤

Sorry I've been MIA guys, life happened but im back!