Its all worth it.
Many of us dream of the day when we can find someone who we want to share the rest of our lives with and have the feeling reciprocated. But what we dont bargain for is the effort, time, blood, sweat and tears that we have to invest in that person and relationship to make it great. Often we get caught up in things that look rather grave and important, which may seem highly detrimental to the success of the relationship. And when you check it out they may not be as great but more mediocre than you led your mind to believe; sometimes our minds gives us this terrible illusion that there MUST be struggle in our relationships and that is not necessarily true. You dont need to fight everyday to keep you on your toes in the relationship or to add spice and variety to it, if thats what other couples do and its been working for years for them, well good for them. The problem comes in when you try to imitate that, you fail to realize that no two persons are the same, your friends relationship wi