Is it true?
How do you know that you aren't dating his potential rather than his actuality? Come on, lets be serious, sure you love him but what exactly is it that gives you the chills, the increased beating of your heart and the beautiful stuttering that comes when you attempt to speak with him? Is it the way how in the moment he makes you feel as if no one else in the world matters when you're both alone? or is it how he blatantly ignores you in public? And it may also be the way in which in the throes of lust and passion he wants you like no other and pays keen attention and effort into making you feel an ecstasy that can only be found in romance novels. but after he helps to strip you bare and the deed has been done, does he help you redress? does he kiss you and pay as much attention to you as he did just five minutes ago (lol)? does he shower you with beautiful kisses praising you with compliments or is it that the beautiful, sexy, "romantic", god that has just partaken in painstakingly beautiful bliss cant even say two words to you apart from "when again?", is that what makes you pine for him? he leaves you to walk home by yourself and then goes to roll a blunt with his friends? Reevaluate your ideals on love my dear because you are just another tick on his bedhead and knowingly or unknowingly you still pine for the ass. How? idk, but if anyone knows why shout me up and let me know. See Ya!
You are dating both his potential and his actuality. In physics potential energy has no motion, it is the energy a body possesses in a particular position. This guy only has the potential to be himself around this girl. This is who he actually is. The girl needs to look and see if this guy has any ambition. He seems to be enjoying his position so there is no need to be anything more or do anything more knowung that with just one look he has you just where he wants you. He is in a position where he gets everything he needs. The only way you will be truly happy is if he develops some ambition to want more-to crave more with you OR, you could just lower your expectations, realise that's actually who he is and become two boulders on top of a hill enjoying the view. I mean you could leave and enjoy the rush and adrenaline of rolling down the hill with an ambitious boulder.
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